We have a tendency to impose structures on phenomena and people from our perspectives. “What choice do we have?” you might ask. After all, what we see is the reality with which we must deal. Right?
Knowledge changed our perspective on Orion’s belt. Once we understood what stars are and how their distances differ, we learned to obtain, if not a change in visual perspective, a change in mental perspective. We learned a new reality. We know that there is not a “real” Orion belt. Now what about those perspectives we have on people? Isn’t it possible that in ignorance we impose false structures and relationships on personalities?
No further delving into the reality of Orion’s belt is necessary for those uninterested in the stars. The Three Sisters just look as though they lie in a line, and they serve as a contrast to all those other stars that look randomly distributed. Enough said. With people, however, the absence of knowledge is a root of bias, from idolizing to hating.
We are always advised to “know ourselves.” Maybe we should have a corollary bit of advice: “Know others.” Neither bit of advice is easy to follow, but the latter is one that will keep us from seeing things that really aren’t there.